Sahel Kazemi was a typical young idiot who hoped to bag a wealthy, famous man, and, failing that, she killed him, at least in my opinion:
Kazemi's family and friends pieced together a portrait of their relationship — one they were leery of because of her age — as police confirmed on Sunday that McNair was shot four times. Police have stopped just shy of calling it a murder-suicide at the Second Avenue condominium where both of them died.
"It's hard right now to imagine what people are saying," Abdi said. "I can't believe it because she was a sweet girl. This is hard on us."
A lot of "sweet" people do evil things. It is just a matter of motive and opportunity. NOBODY is immune.
Supposedly McNair was separated from his wife--though he was STILL married--and Kazemi thought they would get married--classic delusional thinking. I doubt it would have EVER happened.
She wanted to be famous, and she got that dream all right, but not in the way she hoped.
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OK, let's look at this without using Steve McNair or Professional Football in the scenario.
"Has this ever happened before?"
1. Older, married man (insert name of choice), who has more money than he knows what to do with, makes the choice to cheat on beautiful, loyal wife and mother of all his beautiful, innocent children.
2. Sets up / rents / shares an apartment or condo ten minutes away from primary residence for said affair(s).
3. Begins whirlwind romance with younger (young enough to be own daughter), single (must be single so no competition interferring) woman. Falls in love with "soul mate" fast, sweeps her off her feet.
4. Introduces younger woman to all the best life has to offer: car she would not be able to afford on her own, exotic vacations, jewelry, sexy clothing and doesn't have to work anymore or even finish high school. Introduces younger woman to sex like she's never had before (if she's even had it before at all). This will help make her dependent on giving "soul mate" both emotionally and financially. Not to mention alcohol may be provided, even though younger woman might be under the legal drinking age.
5. One month after beginning new life moves younger woman into already rented condo. Takes care of rent for her.
6. After affair continues for several months and initial excitement wears off, assures younger woman that he and his wife are separated / separating / divorcing / almost divorced. So "they" can spend the rest of their lives together.
7. Assures younger woman, and by this time, her wary family he will marry her once his divorce is final.
8. Older, married, more experienced man ends affair with younger woman (insert excuse).
9. Result: heart break and disaster for all involved whether a willing participant or innocent bystander.
"Has this ever happened before?"
See how it looks with or without inserting Steve McNair's name? I may be wrong but I believe this is where they get the old saying "been around the block". I know I have. My older married man was 26, I was seventeen. Excuse for ending the affair? He got his wife pregnant. Again. I did not need to go around the block anymore.
We are all either participants or witnesses to the decline of morality in America.
I choose, as an adult to honor the vows I took with my loving, faithful husband of fourteen - almost fifteen years. Without a doubt I know he does. He is my best friend and has been one of the greatest blessings in my life.
There's another old saying:
"All men are my teachers.
Some teach me what to do.
Some teach me what not to do."
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